The therapist has not indicated they feel protective and I would like them to feel that way towards me

I have such a hard time with this. I don't feel he is protective and he does not convey to me through words or actions that he feels protective of me.

It seems my feelings of worthlessness have roots in my parents not protecting me--endangering me or letting me be in dangerous situations and doing nothing.

I'm not sure if I believe in this process anymore. It feels too much like the relationship with my parents, and I'm starting to think this is more harmful then helpful. For those of us who never had anyone looking out for us and need that - what's so bad about helping a client feel safe?

Even just a little hint here or there would be helpful as I feel like I beg for mere crumbs.