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its been just two days since we talked about it ... but still... is it stupid? im ready to do anything to get past this.
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Well it has been on your mind for two days. That is a very short time.
Why don't you see how you are thinking and feeling about this topic in a couple of weeks? And in the meantime don't make any new decisions or new commitments one way or the other.
Don't try to put the feeling out of your mind. Instead, face it, examine it, live with it, experience it, understand it. Talk about it with a counselor. The more you face this feeling, the better the chance that you will come to terms with what happened and be able to get past this obstacle to your relationship.
When you are examining the feeling, keep this in mind:
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I am crazy about this girl....When i talk to her i feel fine...I cant leave this woman for any reason. She's the real deal.
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