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Old Jan 16, 2015, 10:33 AM
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.....It's as though he's completely oblivious to how bad the things he says are/their timing

News Flash: He is completely aware of how horrible he treats you, every look, every threat, is calculated, and so is each one of your reactions.

...... He just didn't get it and kept stating the same things.

He understood what you were saying perfectly, he knows you will bend to his will and be his doormat in order to prevent being homeless, so that's why he kept repeating his threats to kick you out, he's waiting for you to submit.

I don't think he really sees how offensive, cruel, rude, anxiety-provoking, hurtful, and otherwise upsetting his words/actions can be.
Wrong again, he sees exactly how offensive, cruel, rude and hurtful he is. He's doing it on purpose. Even if he has MI, it doesn't suddenly strip him of his intelligence, his brain is self aware. He treats you badly because it brings him results, not because he's suffering and needs to be protected.

You on the other hand clearly do need protecting, because you don't even know you're living with a lion. Instead you think he's a dog that bites your heel sometimes, and you know the biting's no good, so you choose to close your eyes and ears, and pretend he's a mouse.

Question is tho, do you need protection from your lion or from yourself,
Because what exactly stops you from choosing a third lion?....
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