Mine are all old and married or dead. I do still run into one who i would bang in a new york minute, despite his age and marital status, but i would probably hate myself in the morning!! Chemistry is a funny thing. There are other fish in the sea, just gotta go fishin'! So i browse okcupid a lot, trying to find the attributes i like - the men who fit are few and far between, but at least i am learning to distinguish.