Hello All,
I have been married to my husband for 11 years. At first there was little jealousy issues, but the past three years they have gotten really bad. To the point he accuses me daily even though I have never given him an ounce of suspicion. He does come from a very troubled childhood. He acknowledges he has trust issues but he claims they are my fault because of the things I do. I don't understand because from day one I have mad him my world. I love him with all my heart, but I am tired of dealing with the accusations and the put downs. He refuses to seek help in any form because he does not think its that big of a problem and that I have to "heal" him. He did go to therapy once and got diagnosed with anxiety and depression but pulled out after second meeting. How do I continue to love and support someone who refuses to acknowledge that the problems are his and not mine? Any advice is greatly appreciated.