fuzzy i too am struggling with this dilemma. i was never loved by my mum or dad i was a mistake between 2 people who never loved each other. therefore my self-esteem and confidence are very low, i enjoy sex and would like it to be a bigger part of my marriage. it used to be good, now my sex drive is higher and it is always me who instigates it - therefore leading me to believe he no longer finds me attractive/sexy etc. i need this to make me feel good about myself, hugs and kisses are very rare from him even though i know he loves me. i'm just scared it's not enough, i need lots of affection to make up for lack of it as a child. hard times ahead.

love you, kerry xoxoxoxoxo

this is the kind of hug i miss, heartfelt - not empty