I just realized the strangest thing - if someone says bad things about me, i instantly assume that they are right and start to feel very sad about it.
Today i have read a very cruel comment about me and there was a little truth about it. Guy wrote that no wonder im such a failure with girls and i deserved being cheated on by my ex-gf, because im "annoying negative whiny little *****".
He doesnt know me personally and cant make so cruel verdicts, but still i feel like he's right, because i am really whiny and negative. Though i struggle to change myself, at the moment i am who i am.
How to be more resistant to people opinions?