I am not creating any judgement by that question... just asking the question. I think that it is interesting and worthy of consideration.

Frankly I wish I was more like you in being more comfy with men. I think it is a father thing in some ways. Either recreating your relationship or looking for what you missed. Were you closer to your mom or your dad. Just reaching for things... I really do not know.

You do have some success here in meeting men...wise or not. Maybe indeed he is just bringing it to your attention. I guess I am not sure what the question is.....

Care to expand a bit more??