If someone was working and driving, having a mental illness would be more easily accepted by others because it isnt preventing them from leading an otherwise (mostly) normal life. I think it's the trifecta of all three that is so daunting. To make matters more complicated the disability benefits I'm on are withheld if my partner works more than 30 hours a week, so I've always got that in the back of my mind. Unless i can return to work, I need someone who is also on benefits.

Honestly, lol, i think life would just be too easy without all these complications and I would find it boring. At least with these things to worry about I'm not out causing disruptions and misbehaving like i used to when i was younger.