I so understand where you are coming from. But, for me, I say they don't understand it at all. Yes, they understand it, but they'll never know it like we do.

It is so like you say, they keep coming up with THEORIES. That's the problem right there - WE ARE RIGHT HERE! Why not ask us? I know why, because it's like I was explaining in another thread - no matter how many nature programs you put on TV explaining how some snakes with certain markings are harmless and non-venomous, you'll still get tons of people who, when they encounter any snake in the wild, will simply kill it because it's a dangerous, human-killing machine, it's a SNAKE! Oooooh beware! Ignorance is bliss indeed - for them. It's the same thing here - ANY person with ANY mental issue of ANY kind should be avoided at all costs. We are all suddenly murderous psychopaths and dangerous as hell. What a pile of trash.

And you're question - great question! Indeed, what if this whole thing is back-to-front? That is the million-dollar question!