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I'm ..........the other side........lol............

After close to 21 yrs in a marriage I ended up leaving because of a lot of reasons but a big one was growth in many shapes and areas...........I was the one that continued reading, school, interests, seeking more to life and .........

All I can say is everybody is different........and seek differently, grow differently and stgnate differently........

You have to make your list and weigh your options.......I kept saying maybe next year maybe next year........sorry never really came ........and when it did I think it might have started it was too late.........frustration, resentment, anger.......and I think her new found friends were coaching her which made it worse..........I new it was doomed a long time ago but always thought ................one must truly know what is really is important and what is small stuff.................to me growth in alll forms is huge.........and I understand women tend to have less free time.............but soaps "soapoperas" don't cut it ....................sorry........waiting to be hit.............