The closest I have ever come to touching my T is when he hands me a pen.

So, no... he has never hugged me. I never expected it. And although the irrational me would love for him to hold me and hug me, the rational me knows that even one hug would be %#@&#! up. Rationally, I would never want him to hug me.

Anyone can give a hug. I would much rather see the look in his eyes when he's with me in an emotion. No one else can do that.