It sounds like you're hyper-hyper-sensitive to any sensory stimulation. That would explain why you don't like nice weather or to feel a breeze on your skin. Too much stimulation. As for sensitivity to certain sounds, there is a condition called hyperacusis.

Hyperacusis (also spelled hyperacousis) is a health condition characterized by an over-sensitivity to certain frequency and volume ranges of sound (a collapsed tolerance to usual environmental sound). A person with severe hyperacusis has difficulty tolerating everyday sounds, some of which may seem unpleasantly or painfully loud to that person but not to others. (Wikipedia)

This can feel like someone is stabbing your brain over and over. The sounds really hurt. I have hyperacusis at various frequencies. When the hyperacusis is triggered, I rush to turn down my hearing aids before my head explodes. The hyperacusis can make me unreasonably irritable and give me migraines. My only suggestion is to avoid situations that produce the painful sounds or wear earplugs to take the edge off of the sound when you can't avoid it.