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I think he's trying to get a sense of your patterns. Or help you get a sense of your patterns. You know, because even if you are appropriate with the men at work, there is still a reason that you are drawn to men and have adverse relationships with the women. That, along with the affair and marrying two men who were coworkers, are very significant factors. When you try to decipher your patterns, try to think more about your thoughts and feelings in regards to the males at work, rather than your behaviors... do you know what I mean? Like, you say that you are appropriate with them... so that is behavior. Try to focus more on what is going on inside regarding your relationships with them... and compare it to how you think and feel about the women. Our behaviors don't always reflect what is really going on, so that's why I say all of this.

I'm really, really glad you had a productive session, and most of all..... that you got more appointments scheduled!

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Pink this resonates with me! He kind of knows my patterns but I think he is trying to get me to see the patterns. You know, we've talked about our mothers. I have an awful mother and awful father but I always have wanted his approval and love. I've been chasing that for years. My mother? Not so much...couldn't care less.

Maybe I am drawn to certain males at work especially when they are like all of them have been. Giving me lots of attention, listening to me all the time. Even the bosses where nothing happened. They all sort of took care of me...hhhhmmm...the fog might be clearing on this one!!!

Thanks everyone