I think the T shows here cares, by being consistent, by being available via email, text (in emergencies), me being able to call, having extra appts when needed. Stuff like that.. Or T's wife had to have surgery over NYE holiday, I was scheduled to see him on the 2nd- he went to work that day, but his wife needed him at home. I was his last apt, of the day. So, instead of cancelling my time he asked me to come in earlier. Or- he sent me an article via fb (we are NOT friends, but he had seen my page before) because he said that it reminded him of what I was going through and thought it would be helpful for me to read. I do have a pretty darn good T