Theres a quality my T has that I find hard to put into words, but I don't think anyone could feel an inferiority with her, it's kind of - you are a person and I am a person, end of story. All my feelings should be accepted as they are a part of who I am. I don't know if me writing this makes any sense or is helpful in any way, I'm kind of thinking that regardless in the difference in your lives you might find a T who has this attitude. My t would never feel sorry for me or try to protect me, my life is what it is.