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<font color="green">My therapist worked with me a long time to get me where I could like and comfort my inner child, the little girl who had been hurt so much. But last session she said I needed to look at how I would nuture the teenager inside. The child i can handle she is little and sort of cute, but the teen is obnoxious, resistant even more than the little one! and I keep feeling that she deserved much of what she got. Not the beatings well not the severity of the beatings but I can't get past the way she behaved, the way she dressed. I feel loopy talking about her when she is me.
Anyway how do you love the teen - the one you don't really like in the first place? Do you really have to learn to love her to heal?
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dalila
Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere.
-Erma Bombeck
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