Also, backpacks can help depending on what feels right for your babe. Compression/deep pressure vests are like a 'hug' sensation, regular vests as you know are just weight. Sewing will save you lots..i would experiment if you're not sure what your kid likes. Cut a long sleeve off a shirt, sew one end shut, fill the inside with sand or non toxic material then sew it closed on that end. See what your babe does with it, around the neck, lap, shoulders, etc. Just watch (: that'll tell ya a lot. Hope I helped and hope youre feeling not so blue today +hugs*