Sometimes I think we have a compelling need to talk about our past because we can't otherwise. People with happy childhoods can and do talk about it, and those of us with traumatic ones can never talk about it without being labeled weirdos and really repulsing people. So I think some people, therapists included, just don't want to hear it. I wouldn't work with such therapists. If I was raped as a child how the F is that not relevant?