Interesting aspect on this matter. No, a T:s education or skills wonīt make me feel less inferior. Is it possible to fully like a person you feel inferior to?
In a situation of a T getting seriously ill, Iīd be devastated and my feelings of inferiority would of course not be present but the situation is quite extreme. The normal thing is to have a T, you know about a lot of things you donīt have that she has and this is a bit of a problem for me. It partly stops me from being open and to speak freely about my issues.
At the same time, I know thereīs nothing much to do about it in that aspect that a T could never be a person like myself - unemployed, insecure and so on because then she wouldnīt work as a T.
Itīs as you say a thing you work with in therapy but to admit I feel inferior to for example her living in a nicer area than mine, I would feel so ashamed that it would be vary hard for me to continue seeing her.
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Originally Posted by Gavinandnikki
You may find a therapist that seems perfect for you - yet you feel inferior. But you like her, so you push through your feeling inferior.
3 months into your therapy, you discover she has advanced breast cancer.
Will you still feel inferior?
It's all relative, and feeling inferior is simply immaterial.
You work through your feelings of inferiority IN therapy.
You have to start therapy first.
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