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Originally Posted by PaulaS
Interesting aspect on this matter. No, a T:s education or skills wonīt make me feel less inferior. Is it possible to fully like a person you feel inferior to?
In a situation of a T getting seriously ill, Iīd be devastated and my feelings of inferiority would of course not be present but the situation is quite extreme. The normal thing is to have a T, you know about a lot of things you donīt have that she has and this is a bit of a problem for me. It partly stops me from being open and to speak freely about my issues.
At the same time, I know thereīs nothing much to do about it in that aspect that a T could never be a person like myself - unemployed, insecure and so on because then she wouldnīt work as a T.
Itīs as you say a thing you work with in therapy but to admit I feel inferior to for example her living in a nicer area than mine, I would feel so ashamed that it would be vary hard for me to continue seeing her.
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Well, then. You have a lot of reasons to never get a new therapist. She may have a nice house. Beautiful home.
A lovely husband.
Her children are healthy, smart and well behaved.
Her **** doesn't stink.
So no new therapist for you.