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Old May 25, 2007, 01:03 PM
estrellabonita estrellabonita is offline
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i'm alittle over a month pregnant and i'm already having terrible mood swings with my boyfriend. for example, we don't live together completely yet - we both have our own apartments, but he's been staying at my place for a good while. last friday night he wanted to go spend time with his cousin after work. I, however, wanted him to come home. even though i know i shouldn't have gotten upset about it, i got extremely bent out of shape.

the next morning he would barely speak to me and didn't come home until late after i got off of work (and didn't even stay the night). he got angry with me and pitched a fit about how he wouldn't be able to stay with me if i kept getting mad the way i did and acting crazy. so, i managed to calm myself down (after 20 nervous breakdowns in 3 days) and he came home.

wednesday night, he didn't come home 'cuz he got off of work late (2 a.m.) and didn't want to wake me up (he had to call me from the gate so i could let him in, which i wouldn't have minded). i woke up alone and went to his place. last night, he got off late again and didn't come home 'cuz he had to do laundry. i got upset and angry again out of nowhere and i couldn't help it. then i had a few more nervous breakdowns and didn't fall asleep until almost 4 a.m.

he's really angry with me and doesn't believe me when i apologize. i'm trying really hard to not be like that with him, but i can't help it. i don't know how to alleviate the situation and get things to go back to normal. help!

(sorry this was such a long post, thanks for your help though!)