I´m very worried that my life will continue in a way that I don´t want to, being unemployed, single, feeling down and sad. I have my university degree and I still have the ambition to "do something in life" but I need help and I´m looking for a new T.

Anyway, everyone has their own struggles but as a T also has to be the "blank slate" to a certain degree you as a client quite often think of them as having no or minor problems in their own life. I often recognise them as successful people.

Did your T tell you of his/her own struggles in life? What did you get to know and how did that affect therapy and your feelings for your T?