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Old Jan 19, 2015, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Ididitmyway View Post
I don't see it just as transference or as transference at all. I think, it's a genuine sense of loss of someone who was present for you and listened to you regularly. You miss the experience that is rare and unique in nature, which makes it even more valuable. You were naturally attached to your T and now you miss her. Perfectly normal. As normal as to miss anyone who were attached to and who meant a lot to you.
Absolutely my thoughts as well. When I left therapy because I moved, the loss was very very real. Grief is a complex, life-changing thing.

Take good care of yourself okay?
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