i know. i'm hoping we can talk it out without either of us getting mad or upset, but he just thinks i'm making up excuses when i try to explain myself.

i know i did wrong, but he's made mistakes too. and yes they made me mad, but i didn't get so ballistic that i sat there and talked mad %#@&#! to him like he's done to me. he went through my cell phone twice trying to catch me talking to other guys. someone IMed me on my cell last saturday when we were arguing and he picked up my phone like he was gonna go through it in front of me. when i pointed that out and mentioned how i didn't get nearly as upset about that as he did with me all he said was "yeah, i don't do that anymore, but you're still flipping out"

actually, we're even. i've gone off the handle on him as many times as he's gone through my cell phone. but you know how men are - lol. just kidding.