Thread: just found out
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Old Jan 19, 2015, 02:26 PM
scallion5 scallion5 is offline
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To be fair, yeah - I probably shouldn't have and probably shouldn't try and look at his website when I feel super depressed. Not a good recipe.

That said, it happened. Blaming me isn't really all that supportive.

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Originally Posted by lolagrace View Post
It didn't sound like her T did any shaming, but the OP was incredibly distraught over what she found, to the point of thinking she has to terminate therapy, etc. Yes, she needs to work on the underlying issues, but these issues are probably not new and not unknown already and could have been handled more slowly without the intensity that was so destabilizing. The "crisis" here wasn't necessary in order to work on the underlying issues.