LOL...y'all are giving me lots of great suggestions here!
I know about the HRT cream, and will remember the wild yam suggestion.
At this point, I'm rather content not thinking about sexuality at all! No prince charming is going to charge into my life, of which I am certain!
I would have been wise to have abstained from sexual involvement in my recent past. I do think I have equated sex with "love," unfortunately, as I look back on my experiences. I heard a lot of the "we are not spring chickens" talk from them, and thought, well, okay...we're attracted to each other, and let's go for it! NOT!
My experiences have been horrendous, and like the moth to a flame thingy...I've learned my lesson, so much so, that I am feeling much safer solo, not even thinkng about sexuality!
Love
Patty