i can understand your fears. it is a fear of many women with mental health issues. i didnt see that other post but i suspect that her daughter isnt taking the precautions you are to keep herself stable. sometimes there is a limit to what loved ones can watch happen to children before they feel they have to take action to protect. if the mentally ill person isnt taking any action to acheive stability and this is jeopardizing the health and welfare of the child, sometimes action needs to be taken. i imagine, from the wording of her post, it came across as cold and callous and this was triggering. usually if the court sees that someone with mental health issues is making every effort to maintain stability and is no danger to the child, they will not remove custody. take care.