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Old Jan 19, 2015, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
If it is okay with you, then good. It would not work at all under any circumstances for me. Plus - what happens if you quit without talking it over? They can't come grab you and make you go to the therapist. They might could try to collect money from you or not take you back if you changed your mind, but other than that - it is a bit of a mind thing - not a realistic enforcement thing. Or why not just SI and not tell the therapist? This sort of thing, for me, would not stop SI, it would just stop one from talking to the therapist.

We actually spent two sessions talking about the contract and discussed all of this and I gave T the permission to call and pester me until I went for one last session. It never happened but I'm sure she'd do it.
And yes I could have lied, but that would not have been helpful in the long run. I don't remember everything but a lot of loopholes were closed during those two sessions. I mainly remember being terrified because I admitted all my usual therapy tricks and felt really vulnerable.

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Thanks for this!
guilloche