I don't know why I say it, it's not as if I really do mean it. It seems to be my first knee-jerk reaction of a response when confronting her. Her response to the previous argument with that was, "That's not what I said." Perhaps not, was my response, but it's obvious that my choice of who I choose to date doesn't live up to her expectations. She continued with examples of friends and other choices I've made in life that she called good choices, but this girl obviously wasn't one of them. I've even questioned it myself, call it brainwashing or what, then my friends who'd met my ex-GF say there was nothing wrong with her and that they liked her, which just reaffirms my decision to date her was never a bad one.