I have been in relationships with men and women. I can’t give you advice on which is better—that is something you will need to decide. For myself, I always felt more connected to the women. I have been in a relationship with a man for 6 years and I am ready to break it off because I feel so strongly attracted to women. I feel like there is a piece of the puzzle missing. But, that could mean I just have not found the right guy. And, by the way, women have probably hurt me (relationship wise) as much or more than men. It is a tough call. Following your heart may mean the path you choose will not be the easist.