I have a hard time with relationships. If I care abou someone... I am just utterly incapable of ever initiating anything. Even when I'm in a relationship I can't make the first move!

I tend to do two things which frustrate me - I tend to overlook anyone who may be flirting with me and assume that they're just joking around and want to be friends - to the point that I've been on at least three dates by now that I didn't know were dates!!

I also have almost always gone into a relationship if someone makes it clear enough that it's what they want. I've only been able to say no a few times, and that's because they were already decent friends of mine. And I still had a really hard time doing it even though I knew I had zero interest in a relationship with them.