Love might be blind, but someone entering into a relationship isn't already in love with someone - so they're not blind. Not at all. They might be ignorant of the real person they're getting involved with (common because no one shares everything upon first meeting someone) but as they get to know someone, they're more likely to bail out when they see that the other person is totally dependent upon others.

A job, any job, is sooo beneficial. You can put money to thousands of helpful uses - such as participating in things that you would enjoy that might help introduce you to friends or potential partners who have similar interests as you.

And yes, each of the suggestions I've seen given to you CAN be accomplished by you. Not immediately sure, but they all CAN be. You just choose to reject them and don't want to put in whatever work or effort would be required, or whatever other reason.

And no one here probably cares much if you trust them or not... we're all strangers. And you don't seem very receptive to building friendships on this site. Which is totally fine. But the refusal to trust, open up, and be receptive to others would definitely make it a lot harder to befriend anyone in any situation.