Good post red panda. Love might be blind on the first stages but if the person is a jerk and a loser no one will stick around (hypothetically speaking) I fell in love with some losers before, sure it was blind but I left as soon as I saw they are not right people. So it is extremely naive to expect people to blindly stick around for love. The only true unconditional blind love is love for our children, I will love and care for my daughter even if she was a jerk lol but I sure am not sticking around any men who have nothing to offer ( I don't mean financially but in all other aspects)

Also having a career allows one to be able to afford hobbies that open horizons. My hobbies are rather costly ( I paint do scrapbooks and do Jazzercize) if I didn't work I'd never be able to afford them it would take lots of fun out of my life and I wouldn't meet wonderful friends I met through these activities.

Also travel. To travel one needs money to get money one must work. I personally love to travel.
Overall not attempting to support oneself is just not an attractive quality in any gender

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