Great thread. Consistency and routine can definitely serve as an anchor.

I find I cannot keep up with the mess created by the 5 people in my home. I haaaaate living in a mess but I simply cannot keep up. Even running at full steam I am always behind. OTOH I don't want to spend every moment of my life energy doing dishes. It's a challenge. But yes, the benefits of living in a clean, tidy, organized home are numerous.