I did an extensive search but it was really hard because none of them allowed free initial meetings. One turned me down via phone because I am bipolar. There were more women than men and I wanted a male. There was also an awful lot of T's that were much older than me. I wanted someone who was closer to my age so they could relate to my weirder points.

I generally searched using the psychologists association website because they allowed search criteria. I also wanted someone who was willing to work outside of just vanilla CBT. I made some calls and just picked one. Turned out well even though it took a few meetings to get a good feel for him.

he's mid forties maybe? not real sure, but 40's somewhere i think. I'm 36... and very un-36ish.