I'm married to a narcissist. Despite my own mental and emotional issues, I think I can actually deal with it. For the rest of my life. And I like the guy. He likes me too. But the one thing destroying everything is the way he spends our money. Basic necessities need to be met and we've lost three apartments because of he spends an enormous amount of money on himself. Any suggestions on how to deal with this? For our sake, and for his own. Our own parents individually bail us out. He goes to his, I go to mine. It's been 3 separation periods the past 2 years, we're in different states. I don't want him to wind up on the street one day. Although he'd be the best dressed homeless man out there.