He lost his temper in a HUGE way the night before bc I thought my dog had popped some sutures from her getting spayed and I thought I might have to pawn some of my stuff to pay a vet bill like my laptop and I also have some antique carnival glass I can sell etc. He said none of my stuff was worth anything and he'd pay the bill and in just kept repeating I don't listen to him bc he said he'd clean up the kitchen after dinner and I was cleaning it and he said I was going to break the crock pot cleaning it. We' ve been dating like 9 yrs. I've cleaned the crock pot plenty of times. Besides that's just something people say. "Oh, don't clean up. I'll get it." But they usually don't go ballastic if you help them. Still helping anyway is what I was taught. Then he lent me his truck and it's new to me and he went nuts when I asked him how to get the key out and move the seat. He said I broke it. Turns out I didn't. Turns out maybe it was prophetic though bc I hit some sort of button the night b4 and the dome light stayed on all night ruining the battery. It wouldn't even take a charge. Then he tells me he wants a divorce (we're not married). I broke him. What did he do to deserve this. He cringe s every time the phone rings (I guess bc I'm so needy???) I crashed my car. It was icy. Lots of people crashed that day. My dog got spayed. That's life. The truck battery was 9 years old, plus if he had shown me how the lights worked or been nicer to me so I wouldn't have been so stressed out a d distracted maybe the dome light on. I don't know how to describe it. He was pounding his fists and flailing about and yelling. Asking what he did to deserve this. Did he mean me or a dead battery? I saw him later in the day and he gave me $40 in case I need anything. I think he felt guilty.