Until you stop making excuses for why you can't do anything, nothing positive with occur in your life. I used to do just the same thing; I played the helpless victim to a tee. I wanted to be rescued and this desire led me into relationships with some less-than-stellar men. I know your struggle. Please take advice from someone who's been there.

If my bluntness offends you, many apologies but there is no easy, fluffy way to put this. At this point in time, nothing we say here concerning this topic will make any difference in your life because you are not able to see past all the I-can'ts to see all the I-cans.

Please be well. You deserve happiness, peace, and love. Make room for it in your life. ♥