PERNA!!! I am so impressed with your graph! I still want to grab T and put her in the middle bit complelely LOL but I do get it, may not like it but get it....I think the session was very powerful and there was way to much work just for that 50mins session...BUT I will continue this when we return and I will talk about the I WANT TOO with her and know we will work through it...I keep seeing the times in my life, yes in my seperate bit of the circle, where I also do things because I want too. Its so easy to see our needs then it is the needs of others....like a small child crying "but mummy, surely you want to spend the whole day wiht me and all my needs?" LOL

auch well...life goes on...just f**king hurts understanding it...