I pretty much had carte blanche when it came to out of session contact and occasionally crossed the boundary line - you know the boundary line you don't know about until you run right into it?

My therapist shamed me when I crossed that line. She'd say....

"Pam, really, this is too much. I don't do therapy over texts. You know this Pam!".

Ok, lesson learned, assume the submissive position.

One of the many, many reasons I(yes,me!) terminated after 5 1/2 years.