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Default Jan 21, 2015 at 08:33 PM
 
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Originally Posted by susanemily View Post
Some once told me "don't sell yourself short." It's taken a long time to "get it."
I'm trying to accept myself. I've compared myself with others so much.
I relate to Avoidant personality. The feelings of inferiority, worrying about what others think of me, I've felt too much.
Having to avoid people cause I always felt so "worn out" by them. I like my space.
I truly understand you.
This disorder makes you be and feel an outsider in life.
I really heard you when you said that you would study a career bc for me was as climbing up the Everest. I missed many lessons bc I felt so strange, so different to my classmates. My love for this career saved me bc I work very hard at home doing the research, reading books...but it was hard as hell.

If you let me an advise, I would say to you that look for help to do a therapy. You need to better your self-acceptance and your self-steem. Only when you get it you will be able to stop comparing with other people.
I do it. Why won't you be able, too?
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