If my T came to spend the weekend I would disappear a lot. It would be too intense, plus i would have to clean my house (and I have 3 sons, so not a pretty picture).

Then he would say, "Why do you feel you have to clean?" And we would have to talk about that. And I would say, "Becaue you're a guest in my house and I don't want you to see my mess." And he would offer an inerpretation like, "You make messes and then feel you have to fix them."

And it would go on and on and so I would go out for the day and leave him there with my husband and kids. LOL

Then we would go out for dinner so I don't have to cook and I would order wine and he would say, "What does that do for you?" And I would say, "It relaxes me, changs my mood." And he would say, "What were you feeling that you needed to change?"

And, again, it would go on and on. Nope, I don't want him for the weekend. Not yet anyway.