Pink, I had the scenario where my T came to a booksale I was running! However, my "mentor" was also with me and she was critical of my T! That was hard, LOL. I kept hidden so my T didn't see me but so I could "spy" on her from afar :-) We did mention it in the next session I think but didn't go anywhere with it.

Now if my T came to spend the weekend, I'd maybe take her for a boat ride, I'd definately keep my husband around and the three of us would discuss "therapy" and emotions; my husband has trouble understanding, probably because I have trouble explaining but he loves/supports anything I want/feel I need to do 100% Would be nice to have some "big guns" to discuss things with him, maybe be able to get more understanding into him.