If you read the book you will see that the personality disorders can be unique depending on how the child was neglected. But there can and often will be overlap. I found my parents in many of the chapters except one in all honesty.

I have deep issues with trust. That lead to fear of leaving the house or socializing in any way. Invalidate my emotions and often found that I couldn't even define or identify them. I had nothing to blame for how I felt so obviously there was just something wrong with me. I have a tendency to develop codependency, putting others before me. Guilt, unworthiness, low self esteem, suicidal ideation, isolation...

All of these tie in, and so many more emotions and judgments as well. It could drive you crazy because in your mind "nothing happened to you for you to feel this way".