If I were you, this guy would probably be walking around with a big old bump on his head from where he would have caught a frying pan upside his noggin. I totally understand your hysteria. He's got some flippin nerve. In letting you read that survey, it was fully his intention to have you find what you discovered.

It's not the least bit unusual for most guys to have some fantasy about being with a girl with movie star good looks. Just like you may occasionally have similar fantasies. But this guy is playing with your head to get an upper hand in the relationship in a cruel way. He's looking to activate your insecurity, so you will think that you are lucky to have him.

There are times in relationships where getting dramatic and hysterical is just what is indicated. This is one of those times. He knowingly let you be very hurt. I'ld say give him way more of a response than he calculated on. You might want to start tossing his stuff out the window right now. Put him in a position where he believes that, if he wants to keep you, he is going to have to beg your forgiveness on his knees.

Thinking you are drop dead gorgeous is not the same thing as being sexually attracted to you. If your sex life up to now has been decent, then you are plenty attractive enough in his eyes. On the other hand, if he has seemed not that interested in sex with you, then maybe he does need to move on and allow you to do the same. But there's a good chance that he is quite fine with the sex he has with you, but would like to make you feel like he is doing you a favor when he loves you. When he handed you that survey to read, he knew what you would find, and he predicted how you would react. He probably envisioned you being all heart broken and begging him for reassurance. That's actually a way of him wanting to feel reassured by testing just how heart broken you'ld be, if you worried that he might be getting ready to walk.

It's not a good idea for you to be predictable to this guy. Give him a response that surprises him. That's why I suggest tossing his stuff out the window. That will actually make you seem sexier to him. When a man complains about a woman not being sexy enough, it usually is not about looks. It's usually about the confidence you project. So that's what you need to do - project confidence.

Another word of wisdom: Don't ever ask to read something like that survey again. That's just an invitation for him to start a head game.