We have to learn how to be happy with our faults.
I would also be happier if I wasn't an avoidant but I think this disorder made of me what I am and there are also positive things about being an avoidant.
Perhaps, I'm wrong but I think people with AvPD are moré consider with other people than the average.
It also means that you are forced to know yourself better. Many people live their lifes without any awareness of who they are.
I like to talk to other avoidants bc they have much moré interesting conversations than the average.
I also think avoidants have a great inner world.