I get annoyed when T discusses whether I am idealizing him. I am like, 'no really, you are VERY annoying and your tendency toward anxiety is too much like my husband's and makes my life harder sometimes. However, you are really freaking cute, incredibly funny, intelligent, and good at what you do and I acknowledge that as well.' He looked at me really funny for several minutes after that. Then I pointed out time was up for the day and we could continue there next week if he liked. I thought it was a pretty funny situation, anyway.