Oh yes! I can totally relate. In general, I'm not so much of a fashion plate, but there was a time when I cared how I looked. When I was younger I would dress more carefully and even put some make up on. High heel shoes and jewelry, were staples of my wardrobe. But now that I'm struggling with moods and I'm also overweight, I find that I don't give a crap. For example: I have 4 cats and love black yoga pants, so when I go out I'm usually bringing a gallon of cat hair with me. Yuck, I know.

I'm hoping as I start feeling better mentally, emotionally, and physically, I will get this girly side of me back. But until then I'm just going to keep enjoy my "I don't care" mentality. I have years and years ahead of me to care how I look.