A therapist, i had, caught my aspergers when I was almost 25 years old. It's on the spectrum but I think a lot of aspies tend to go undiagnosed because of being able to somewhat adapt to NT life and seem almost "normal". Maybe continue on more help with your mental health from a therapist/psychiatrist. They seem better versed in understanding the mind. I see a psychologist for the therapy part and a psychiatrist for medication. Works really well